This keeps happening.
Let’s go ahead and clear up the misconception that “curvy” (at least on a woman) is anything other than the hourglass figure. It absolutely does not apply to fat women.
I went out with a self-professed “curvy” girl who told me she had size 32 H breasts and was proud of her “big boobs”. Lady, the only reason you have “big boobs” is because of your “big fat ass”. In my opinion anything bigger than a D or DD (dependent on slender or truly curvy body type of course) just looks strange since you ruin the proportion of the body.
To illustrate what I’m getting at, the following qualifies as curvy:
This does not:
Being shaped like a green fruit I can find in any produce section isn’t curvy; you’re just fat.
EXACTLY. Stop calling it anything other than what it is. For that matter let’s also stop with this “body positivity” bullshit. You have the “healthy at any weight” and “big and beautiful” crap coming out of the feminist echo chamber; all that really serves to do is let a bunch of fat chicks pat each other on the back for their unhealthy choices and their frankly gross figures. You won’t find any self-improvement there; all you’ll get is another entitlement mentality that wants everything (men, Starbucks, or ice cream, usually) without deserving it.
You can’t rewire male nature and instinct to see your lard ass as attractive. Go ahead and run any campaign you want and try to bend society every which way; hell, you may even fool a couple of those “metrosexual” (you can call “gay” whatever you want these days) males or white knights into siding with you. Nature will eventually fight back and the natural order of things will resume. Your attempts at change will not last.
To quote Jeff Goldblum’s character from Jurassic Park: “Nature… nature finds a way”